Saturday, August 20, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
memorial service music
Here's the music we played at Ray's service
And here's a Pandora station with many of the songs on it:
And here's a Pandora station with many of the songs on it:
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
photos
A bunch of pictures of Ray. I'd love to add any you want to send me.
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2557367&id=16827521&l=478f5d3994
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2557367&id=16827521&l=478f5d3994
Monday, February 14, 2011
memories
sorry, i just realized i had the settings wrong on the memories page. please post any stories you want to share now. thank you so much to everyone who wrote out or video recorded stories at the service on Saturday!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Monday, February 7, 2011
service on saturday
We've got the service set! We'll hope to see you at 11am this Saturday, February 12th at Fellowship church in Rogers, Arkansas. We're having a barbeque lunch following the celebration service, so come hungry.
2/8 update:
Here's some more information about where at the church the service will be. It'll be in the training center chapel at the north end of the campus.
There are two buildings attached by a breezeway in purple and the service is in the one (on the map) that is identified as auditorium. There are signs that direct traffic to the Training Center and the main office building does have Training Center labeled on it
2/8 update:
Here's some more information about where at the church the service will be. It'll be in the training center chapel at the north end of the campus.
There are two buildings attached by a breezeway in purple and the service is in the one (on the map) that is identified as auditorium. There are signs that direct traffic to the Training Center and the main office building does have Training Center labeled on it
Thursday, February 3, 2011
donations
For anyone wanting to make donations in Ray's memory, there are two organizations Ray was involved with that would be great to give to.
Oceans of Mercy is the ministry Ray served with when he went to South Africa. They provide hope, life, and love to orphans and vulnerable children affected by HIV/AIDS in South Africa. You can give online at http://www.oceansofmercy.com/, and you can put Ray Vaughn's name in at the very end (after you submit). Thank you.
The Samaritan Community Center is a soup kitchen and more that Ray served with in Rogers. They are committed to breaking the cycle of hopelessness in Northwest Arkansas. You can give online at http://www.samcc.org/, and then email Debbie Rambo drambo@samcc.org to let them know your donation is for Ray Vaughn's memorial. Thank you.
Oceans of Mercy is the ministry Ray served with when he went to South Africa. They provide hope, life, and love to orphans and vulnerable children affected by HIV/AIDS in South Africa. You can give online at http://www.oceansofmercy.com/, and you can put Ray Vaughn's name in at the very end (after you submit). Thank you.
The Samaritan Community Center is a soup kitchen and more that Ray served with in Rogers. They are committed to breaking the cycle of hopelessness in Northwest Arkansas. You can give online at http://www.samcc.org/, and then email Debbie Rambo drambo@samcc.org to let them know your donation is for Ray Vaughn's memorial. Thank you.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
family service
Monday evening, before the ice and snow came, we had a memorial service at Gina's house for the family who was in town, mostly from Sante Fe and also some family in Rogers. A few pastors from their church came to lead the service and did a great job. We got to sing Blessed Assurance and I Will Rise, heard about how much Jesus loves us, Joshua gave a similar eulogy to what he's planning to at the bigger service, and we all got to share memories of Ray. It was really wonderful to be able to have this service together.
Here are videos of the songs we got to enjoy together:
Here are videos of the songs we got to enjoy together:
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
obituary
Here's a copy of the obituary:
http://www.stockdalefuneral.com/Obituaries/Obituary_Vaughn_Ray.html
The life of Lowell Ray Vaughn began in Visalia, California in 1958 and ended in Rogers, Arkansas this Saturday past. Raised since early childhood in McDonald County, Missouri and a 1976 graduate of McDonald County High School, the true adventure of Ray’s life began in adolescence when he trusted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Ray was the son of Vivian Estelle Vaughn and Lowell “Red” Vaughn. He is preceded in death by his father Red and his brothers Leon and Jim. Ray will be missed by his loving and loyal brother Bill Crowe. Ray was a successful entrepreneur, an avid fisherman, and more than anything else he treasured people the way his Savior did. Ray was a dedicated, faithful, and loving husband to Gina Vaughn and a better father than his two children Joshua and Kristen Vaughn could have ever hoped for. His legacy of love lives on in his grandchildren Noah Rains, Evalana Vaughn, and Lazarus Vaughn. Services will be held at 11:00 A.M., Tuesday February 2nd at Fellowship Bible Church in Rogers, AR, with reception immediately following. Instead of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made in his name to Samaritan House (www.samcc.org) where he would serve the community of Rogers; or to Oceans of Mercy (www.oceansofmercy.org), an organization Ray worked with to meet the needs of orphans on a missions trip to South Africa.
http://www.stockdalefuneral.com/Obituaries/Obituary_Vaughn_Ray.html
Monday, January 31, 2011
service delay
we're still working on plans, but the service will probably be next week, possibly Saturday. Sounds like a lot of ice and snow is on its way to arkansas. <~rkv>
Delayed Service
We're working on details but wanted everyone to know that the service will be later this week. Due to weather, time constraints, sickness, etc. the service has been cancelled for Tuesday, February 1st. As soon as we have the day and time set, we will post it.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
service
A few details about the service that we wanted to share. Let us know if you have questions.
Donations can be given in Ray's name to Oceans of Mercy which Ray served with when he went to South Africa http://www.oceansofmercy.com/, or the Rogers Samaritan Center soup kitchen that Ray served at http://www.samcc.org/.
Please feel free to dress comfortably for this celebration service. Also, children are welcome to attend.
After the service at http://www.fellowshipnwa.org/, we will have a feast while we celebrate and remember.
We are planning to video the service and party, so, while the weather forecast looks a little icy on Tuesday, please be careful, and we'll share the video with anyone who is unable to make it or wants a copy.
Also, Joshua and I went to a wonderful church service at Westside this morning. I'd encourage you to join us online if you're able at 5pm or 6:30pm today at http://westside-family.churchonline.org/ or you can watch the service at http://westsidefamilychurch.com/recentmessages.html and click on "Taking Responsibility" and "part 5 my opportunities" or at http://mediasuite.316networks.com/player.php?v=tiuv222n. It really is a great service for what we're going through today.
Donations can be given in Ray's name to Oceans of Mercy which Ray served with when he went to South Africa http://www.oceansofmercy.com/, or the Rogers Samaritan Center soup kitchen that Ray served at http://www.samcc.org/.
Please feel free to dress comfortably for this celebration service. Also, children are welcome to attend.
After the service at http://www.fellowshipnwa.org/, we will have a feast while we celebrate and remember.
We are planning to video the service and party, so, while the weather forecast looks a little icy on Tuesday, please be careful, and we'll share the video with anyone who is unable to make it or wants a copy.
Also, Joshua and I went to a wonderful church service at Westside this morning. I'd encourage you to join us online if you're able at 5pm or 6:30pm today at http://westside-family.churchonline.org/ or you can watch the service at http://westsidefamilychurch.com/recentmessages.html and click on "Taking Responsibility" and "part 5 my opportunities" or at http://mediasuite.316networks.com/player.php?v=tiuv222n. It really is a great service for what we're going through today.
the end and a party
When Ray left this world, he was surrounded by love and prayers with Gina and Joshua at his side in a calm room.
Last night Joshua came back to Kansas City, and we had a party with balloons, cake, and flowers for Ray's unimaginably huge party with Jesus.
Last night Joshua came back to Kansas City, and we had a party with balloons, cake, and flowers for Ray's unimaginably huge party with Jesus.
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Home
Thank you all for your prayers. We have been surrounded by them and they have meant so much. This morning our daddy/husband/son/brother/friend ran to his savior. God is so good, even when His plans are hard to understand.
Services will be in Rogers, Arkansas this Tuesday at 11am. More details will be posted later. Thanks again everyone; God loves you dearly.
-Joshua
Services will be in Rogers, Arkansas this Tuesday at 11am. More details will be posted later. Thanks again everyone; God loves you dearly.
-Joshua
Friday, January 28, 2011
Still in A-Fib (cont.)
The cardiologist just came by and said very casually "One shock, and he was back in rhythm." :)We're grateful for that news. More prayers answered in the affirmative. Thank you Jesus!
Still in A-Fib
Dad's heart is still racing. The cardiologist is wanting to shock dad's heart to get it back into a normal rhythm. They came back to get consent and mom asked that he speak with dad's pulmonologist (he's kinda been taking the lead so far) before doing it. They are consulting now. Please join us in praying for wisdom for the doctors and the right move to be made for dad - what ever that is, for dad's comfort and peace whatever happens, and God's grace on us all. Thanks for praying, thank you Jesus for listening. Amen.
Dialysis this morning (cont.)
Have a little more information, but first thanks for your prayers. They are being answered in the affirmative right now. This was another A-Fibrillation episode. He had one a couple of days ago, and they got it under control with medication and then his heart maintained a normal rythem for two days until this morning's episode. His heart rate has been normal to high (70 -100 beats per minute). During this morning's A-fib episode it spiked into the 180s. When I do the math on that it just astounds me. 180/60 = 3 beats a second. I see something like that and think the human heart just can't take much more than that. It just sounds impossible. While everything else going on with dad certainly makes it very serious, one website I checked this morning said that A-fib patients can exhibit heart rates as high as 300-600 times a minute. Even at the low end; 300/60 = 5 beats a second. I can't twitch my fingers that fast. It boggles my mind the device God made when He made the human heart that can survive stress like that. Thankful this morning that dad's A-fib was not worse and that it is in fact coming down (at last check he was in the 140s). Love you all. Thanks for your prayers. Thanks Jesus for listening.
Dialysis this morning
Hi everyone, love some prayers for this morning. Dad was in his dialysis treatment (this must be his 5th or 6th so far) and his heartrate spiked through the roof. His doctor is back there now and they are working to get it back down into a healthy range. Thanks for praying. Thank you Jesus for listening.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Fitting
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| the view out his window |
"Get up; let's leave this place."
air bed
Joshua's update on the bed switch:
Joshua Vaughn Another prayer answered in the affirmative! Dad is in his new bed and his numbers did not drop very much, and only for a very short time.
Hopefully this new bed will help him.
Joshua Vaughn Another prayer answered in the affirmative! Dad is in his new bed and his numbers did not drop very much, and only for a very short time.
Hopefully this new bed will help him.
bed switch
They're switching Ray's bed right now. Please pray that he is able to handle this well. Thank you.
Maybe switching beds today
Dad is partway through dialysis this morning. His numbers are not stellar, but they always seem to bump up after a good dialysis treatment. The issue for today and a great thing to be praying about is the impending bed switch-a-roo. Sometime today, probably around three, they are going to move him to an air bed. See, normally they can roll a patient to their right or left by stuffing pillows under them to help prevent bed sores. Dad's numbers take a nose dive when they turn him to the right and do only okay when they turn him to the left (I think I have the directions correct). Anyway, he is likely to develop really bad bed sores unless they can get him in a more advanced bed that can adjust him more easily and in a more therapeutic way. The fear (and one of the main reasons they have not done this yet) is that he is too fragile to tolerate the transfer. Again, they are thinking around three for that; we'd love some prayers for that to go well. Thanks all!
- Joshua
- Joshua
good night!
In the ICU at Mercy, they have a 1:1 nurse to patient ratio. Joshua says the setup there is really nice. Last night's nurse said that last night was the best night Ray's had so far. Everything's been pretty stable for the past 24 hours now! His oxygen is still at 100% (obviously the highest that can go) and the pressure is at 24 (the highest it's been is 25), so hopefully they'll be able to get those things lower soon. This morning the doctor also seemed encouraged by his not declining recently.
Joshua's working from the hospital today. Thankful for laptops, wireless internet, and a great job. Joshua said it feels good to be able to do something that's a little more predictable and normal routine.
Joshua says they actually don't have a 1:1 ratio, but the nurses are so great that it seems like they do.
Joshua's working from the hospital today. Thankful for laptops, wireless internet, and a great job. Joshua said it feels good to be able to do something that's a little more predictable and normal routine.
Joshua says they actually don't have a 1:1 ratio, but the nurses are so great that it seems like they do.
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
blog for ray
I'm Ray's daughter-in-law. I've been getting updates from Joshua (his son) on the phone, and I've been updating facebook with prayer requests. I thought this might work better for people who don't have access to my facebook. Also, my mom reminded me that we read it's good to keep a journal for people who are going through something similar to what Ray is. If he recovers, he'll probably want to know what happened while he was sedated. I know I would. How strange to miss out on days of your own life. If God decides to take him on Home, then his family still has this blog as a memory of all the people thinking of him, visiting him, and praying for him in his final days. This can also be a place for people to share your comments and prayers for Ray. I will put updates on here soon. Thank you for caring and praying!
he can pull through
Joshua Vaughn
and while his numbers might not look fundamentally different, mom thinks the doc was encouraged that this is the first day dad has made it through without developing any new distressing condition. Thank you Jesus for today!
no setbacks!
Although Ray is still in critical condition and very sick, we're so thankful for a fairly good day for him. Noah is still sick with a fever and Cheryl's still staying with him, Kristen's feeling a little better but still sick, and Gina says she feels almost all better. I guess they don't have vomiting and diarrhea but do have fevers and coughing.
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